RT: 3.3 min - Aug 9, 2015 - by Michael
IMAGINE...
...Knowing if someone would be faithful to you?
How much headache and heartache would you avoid?
If you're with someone right now, it may be too late to use what you're about to read.
Let me explain.
What you'll find in this post works best if used before you get into a relationship with someone.
And this is for a good reason: you need to playfully find out how they've done things in their past before they have a reason to lie to you.
Someone you don't know is less likely to lie to you since the truth of their past won't hurt you or jeopardize your fresh friendship.
And they won't feel threatened by what they're telling you if you're airing out your dirty laundry as well.
For this to work, you may have to open up as well.
And don't act surprised by anything they say to you. If you do, they may refrain from telling you anything else.
Also, you also need to find out what their needs are, so you can determine if you can fulfill those needs.
Have a conversation with the person you like. One that's flowing and comfortable.
Use F.O.R.M.
Ask about their Family, Occupation and how they use their Recreational time. And M stands for money.
F.O.R. are great for conversation starters.
The conversation has to be flowing so the other person doesn't feel like you're being nosy, and the conversation needs to feel comfortable, so you can ask personal questions and get honest answers.
For example: If the person you're interested in told you that they NEEDED a lot of attention from their past relationships, you may have some conflict about that later on if you're not the type to be affectionate.
And don't think to yourself that you can learn to be affectionate just because the other person is really attractive.
You are who you are.
And you're looking for natural compatibility.
Its can be a mistake to be someone you're not. Your true self will reveal itself as time goes by. You'll set yourself up for failure if you go through with it.
Ask them to describe their ideal partner.
If they don't describe YOU?
RUN...
Someone can justify being with you if you're not what they really want, but justifications in relationships don't last long.
If you know someone DESIRES to be with someone who's tall...
...but you're short, and they stick around anyway because you have a magnetic personality, the desire to be with someone tall will come up again sometime in the future.
Ask this jokingly.
You'll seem weird if you don't.
Here you go:
I'll explain how this works.
A girl that I liked and I were going back and forth about things that happened to us in our past relationships.
Her story started to get good.
I mean, really good.
So I asked more and more questions to get her to tell me in detail about what really happened.
She told me.
I'm not going into detail...
...but she told me what she did and my eyebrows raised, and I thought, "Whoa! Well... This is NOT going to happen!" I wouldn't put myself in that dude shoes for no amount of money.
I laughed it off, and I never—I mean, NEVER, showed her any interest after that.
No thanks.
If you can't fulfill someone's desires or needs, how long do you think it would take until those needs or desires NEED to be fulfilled?
Being with someone you know you can't please is like applying for a job at Tirekindom, and get it—without knowing how to repair cars.
And...
...if someone told you that he/she sought out revenge on a past partner or secretly "played the field" behind someone's back, you are no one special. Its not wise to think you will be treated any different.
IN FACT: People do evil things to people they've know for a long time, and you would be the new guy or gal.
— Michael
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